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Anonymous asked: Ive recently gone through a tough break up and I still have feelings for my ex, but I also have feelings for this guy I consider to be my brother /: should I get over my ex and confess my feelings toward my friend? I just don't know what I could possibly do ): I mean my ex was amazing but we always got into a huge argument and that he made me feel so worthless when we broke up since he said some stuff that really broke my heart, but with my friend I don't want to stay in the friend zone Honestly, what it sounds like to me is that you need to sort things out. Because you don’t know what you want to do, you should just focus on one thing at a time. And that one thing, is getting over your ex. You can’t start something new, if you’re still holding on to the past. You’ll just carry that weight into your next relationship. If you think you like your friend, you should maybe wait until you’re over your ex to tell them. Or if you tell them, then just let them know that you’re still not over your last relationship and that you need some time to move on, but you’d still like them to know how you feel. Keep them as a friend and be honest with them, share things with them, like how you’re feeling, be open. I think that makes a friendship stronger and with a stronger friendship, that creates a strong foundation for you to actually start a new relationship. |
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Anonymous asked: I was talking to someone for a while, and then we stopped, it wasn't anyones fault... We never dated though. I want to talk to him again and I would contact him but :/ I lost his number and I don't know any other way to get ahold of him. Hm, if you really want to talk to him, try finding him on facebook, I know that sounds lame, but what else can you do? Or if you know any of his friends, casually ask them what he’s been up to or if they know how he is. Tell them to say hi to him for you, and maybe he’ll contact you. :) I’ve drifted from some people like that but somehow, I’ve found that if we were meant to be friends or more, it’ll happen on its own time. |
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Anonymous asked: Last year I switched school and changed my look. Everyone from my old school wants to be friends with me now because im "cool" even tho I have the personality. At my new school everyone wants to be my friend. Im happy but at the same time I know its fake. I dont know how to feel if they only like me for how I dress... You’ll learn that some people only care about you superficially, but some people out there will genuinely care about you for who you are. Think about the friends that you had before all of that happened, they’re probably the ones that genuinely care about you. If people only want to be your friend for how you dress or what you look like, that isn’t friendship. |
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Anonymous asked: So I recently found out that my so called "best friend" has been using me for all sorts of things ranging from rides, money, food ect. She thinks that she can lie to me and get away with it, and i've told her how upset it makes me and how all I want is the truth, but I still get lied to every day. She says I mean a lot to her and she cares so much about me, but i'm just getting tired of being lied to used and hurt. Do you think I should stick it out or just give up this friendship? If you feel like she’s lying to you and just using you, I’d say to let her go. If you told her how you felt and it’s obvious that she doesn’t care, don’t allow yourself to be put in that situation. It’s not fair to you. If she doesn’t appreciate you, then let her go. Why let someone just continue to abuse your “friendship” and your generosity. |
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Anonymous asked: but what if i tell him and he freaks out? i don't want to risk losing his friendship If he freaks out, then he wasn’t really a friend to begin with. If he’s really your friend, he’d understand and tell you that it was fine, but he just wants to be friends with you. If he says that, it’s best to respect his wishes and not push the issue any further. But you’ll never know unless you ask or tell him. Hope for the best, and prepare for the worst, but don’t just go in, expecting the worst. |
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Anonymous asked: i like this guy, but he has no idea i exist, at least in a romantic way. we've hungout a couple of times but i'm too ashamed to make a move because i have no idea how he'll react. :) Tell him. Guys won’t know you like them, unless you’re straight up about it. I mean unless the both of you are vibing great together, then maybe he’d know, but if not, then he won’t. So speak up, tell him. Take a chance, life is too short to be scared. |
