Sorry about the reblogs. They’re sort of still relevant to my life. :/

ayeeitsmikeyy:

To be honest, I’d rather care too much because in the end, if it doesn’t work out, I’d know that I gave it my best shot. The other person would have no reason to say that I never tried, they would have no reason to say that they felt like they never mattered to me. I’d rather make my best effort than make no effort. I would want the other person to know that I cared about them, I wouldn’t want them to question that. Call me selfish, narrow minded, or immature, as long as I did my best and I know I did, I can walk away with no regrets, I can walk away knowing that I did everything I could, I can walk away knowing that I at the very least, tried.

ayeeitsmikeyy:

If it’s easy for them to move on, maybe you didn’t mean as much to them as you thought. Maybe they’re just good at pretending like it doesn’t hurt them, that it doesn’t bother them. I wouldn’t waste my time being sad about someone, especially if they don’t even give you a second thought. I wouldn’t waste my time thinking about someone that doesn’t care enough to stop and think about you. If it’s easy for them, even if it’s killing you, make it seem like it’s 10x easier for you.

ayeeitsmikeyy:

they treat you with the highest regard, and they respect and acknowledge you. But you’re too busy to notice. You treat them as if they’re insignificant. And while you’re too busy, neglecting them, someone else is giving them attention. They don’t have to beg the other person for it, they’re willingly giving it to them. They don’t sit around and wait for you to acknowledge them because someone else already has. While you’re not making time for them or treating them right, someone else is comforting them and listening to them cry about it. The other person will see every bit of good that this person is and they’ll treasure it, they’ll hold onto it. So while you’re too busy to notice, while you don’t acknowledge them, treat them as if they really matter, someone else is. So don’t be surprised if one day, that someone else has them. Don’t be surprised when the “good thing” you have becomes the good thing you had, and you’re forced to watch them genuinely being happy with someone else. Open your eyes and start to realize what you have, make the effort to show them that they’re important to you, or watch them as they leave.